Guest Post by Senior Robert Cavanagh
Some of the things that have changed about me since freshman year are my maturity, understanding of things, relationships with people, as well as my relationship with God.
When I was a freshman, I did not know what to expect going into high school. I thought that nothing would be hard until junior year or senior year, but that was not true. One of the most important things is making a first impression and showing people who you are. If you never did your homework or were always being disrespectful, then people wouldn’t want to help you as much or give you the benefit of the doubt. Plus, you have to start your good work habits early so that they stick. Later down the road, you don’t want to say that you wish you did better in freshman and sophomore year looking back.
One of the things that I noticed the most was seeing everybody grow and become better people and better friends. I interviewed a few of my classmates in order to share their perspective. Gavin Harris reflected, “I grew with my classmates, and the people around me helped better me.” Addy Bautel shared, “Everybody grew in their faith and with classmates, with many class retreats, and being in the same class together. I am happier, grew closer to God, and worried less.” Dominic Engle had a similar experience: “I grew the most in my faith, family, maturity, and with my brothers.” We all have grown either if it’s with God or mentally, and we can continue to grow in the future.
Another thing that has changed a lot is my physical appearance. When I look back to freshman year, my athletic ability was way less than it is now. That’s pretty much the same for everybody, but it’s cool to see yourself grow physically and become a better athlete alongside your friends. Jon Brzezinski commented, “My physical appearance has changed a lot, like getting bigger and going to the gym.” Looking back at basketball freshman year, it’s pretty amazing to see how much my teammates and I have changed and grown, both in size and skill.
The last thing I want to talk about is my relationship with God. I believe that everyone should have a relationship with him and do everything for him. Since freshman year, I visit the chapel more and am just overall closer to God. When I am not in the right state of mind or just need a break, I can turn to God and pray. Audrey Stafford commented, “I grew in confidence and spiritual life; mentors and good friends helped me get there.”
If anything is true about high school, it’s that every single assignment matters and there will be ups and downs. I am looking forward to finishing my senior year with my friends and ready for whatever comes after. I am very grateful for the opportunities that I’ve had over the last four years, and I can thank God and my parents.
